That sucks! Sorry, I don't have any wheels for you, the same thing happened to a friend of mine a couple weeks ago, the pothole looked like some gravel until you were right on top of it, it was 6 or 8 in. deep, luckily (not for him) I was following.
Make sure you get them from a reputable source. I got a front wheel off of ebay and no road rash. Spend hours prepping the wheel to get painted and my brother then painted them. Mount the tire and get them balanced at Cycle Gear and the dude shows me the
wheel on the tire balancer and the thing is bent as hell. Luckily the rear wheel was good. Just be careful because you won't always be able to tell visually.